Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Small update

I've noticed in the last few weeks that South Carolina's Facebook page is featuring his ex-wife more frequently. The last conversation I had on the phone with him, though, he said, "We've decided we're definitely not getting back together. That's done." I can understand that. It was a bitter breakup for him, since it was the result of her infidelity.

Then, he was all hot and heavy to see me at the conference....but canceled quickly. Yes, I know -- budget cuts. But you gotta wonder now....

His Facebook "relationship" status changed to "In a relationship." Last week. (Okay, so I'm slow to notice these things!)

I asked about it, since he wasn't volunteering any information. You see this coming?

Yep. He's trying to get back together with his ex-wife. Not the smartest of moves, in my humble opinion. But if that floats his boat and makes him happy, then so be it.

He said he's not completely sure about it, but she wants to try, so he will, too. I told him to be careful and be happy. He hasn't replied.

7 comments:

Fire Byrd said...

I guess it depends on whether he can forgive and forget as to whether it will work or not!
x

Ronjazz said...

We all do things like this. What's important is how YOU feel about it and whether the friendship remains strong and viable, I think.

R2K said...

: )

darth sardonic said...

damn those fucking ex's!

e jerry said...

As long as you're strongly doubting the fact that you and your ex are of the same species, I'm content.

Walker said...

Some people just like getting kicked in the balls

Blogget Jones said...

Byrd -- That's exactly right. I took Old BF back too many times and he never changed, so I'm a little skeptical....but it's SC's heart. I hope he's okay!

Ron -- I am certainly willing to remain his friend, if he can handle that and she's comfortable with it. Most likely, she knows nothing of me....

R2K -- thanks :o)

Darth -- you can effing say that again!

Jerry -- No problem there. He's mutated into something I don't even recognize now!

Walker -- too, too true.

Thanks!
BJ